While I agree with much of what you say, I take issue with how you characterize AA. I had the same prejudice when I turned to AA for help with alcoholism. As an atheist, the program did sound ‘religious’ to me. But after using that as an excuse to reject it, I suffered through 10 more years of alcoholism before returning. At that point I understood that the ‘higher power’ could be any thing g or any one - as long as it wasn’t me. This little mind game allowed me to deflate my ego and get out of my own way, which was the crucial component of my recovery. That was more than 30 years ago. So understand that AA works for atheists too.
I appreciate you taking the time to reply to our work, and I am aware that many people attribute success at overcoming addictions to 12 step programs. Vincent's and my discussions of these programs ask people to reconsider their right understanding of what is going on. Remember, YOU are the one who chooses NOT to drink anymore.
While I agree with much of what you say, I take issue with how you characterize AA. I had the same prejudice when I turned to AA for help with alcoholism. As an atheist, the program did sound ‘religious’ to me. But after using that as an excuse to reject it, I suffered through 10 more years of alcoholism before returning. At that point I understood that the ‘higher power’ could be any thing g or any one - as long as it wasn’t me. This little mind game allowed me to deflate my ego and get out of my own way, which was the crucial component of my recovery. That was more than 30 years ago. So understand that AA works for atheists too.
I appreciate you taking the time to reply to our work, and I am aware that many people attribute success at overcoming addictions to 12 step programs. Vincent's and my discussions of these programs ask people to reconsider their right understanding of what is going on. Remember, YOU are the one who chooses NOT to drink anymore.